Ah yes, tumblr. It’s been a while.
Welcome to Bewdy, Mate. This blog comes out of frustration at make up and beauty blogs that focus on expensive brands. I also wanted to position this blog in an Australian context, so my working class femmes could have a home to talk about putting on a bit of slap.
I am welcome to submissions,…
Last night my little sister (5th grade) was making an e-mail account
She saw gender and went to click female when she noticed the “other” choice
She looked at me confused and I started to explain that some people don’t think they fit in with strictly male or female
"Oh! You mean like transgender and stuff like that. I was freaked out for a second- I thought they meant robots."
Yet another example the kids are more open-minded than adults
a tiny heart next to the tumblr logo.. cool! wouldn’t it also be great if tumblr banned the several outright homophobic, transphobic and queerphobic blogs on here? oh shit the letters change colors too! nevermind
Right this minute, there is someone going through chemotherapy shopping at your grocery store, buying popsicles and ice cream to help their sore mouth, and worrying what the cashier is going to think.
There is someone on hemodialysis buying white bread instead of whole wheat, trying to keep their phosphorus levels reasonable between appointments and hoping for the best.
There is a person attending intensive outpatient treatment for their eating disorder who has been challenged by their therapist to buy a Frappuccino.
There are dietitians picking up a dozen different candy bars to eat with their clients, who feel ashamed and guilty about enjoying them.
There is someone who just doesn’t have it in them to cook right now, and this frozen pizza and canned soup will keep them going.
There are people recovering from chronic dieting and semi-starvation who are buying chocolate and chips at their deprived body’s insistence.
All around us are people listening to what their bodies need and attempting to make the best possible choice within a context of overwhelming food pressure. All of their choices are valid, and every single one of these foods is “real.”"
And there are people buying a fucking cheeseburger because it’s delicious and they want to.
Other people’s food choices are nobody’s business but their own, and nobody has to have special reasons for needing to buy and eat any particular food.
I just want to add that to Michelle’s brilliant post.